Do you have a question about relationships and flirting?

You can email me about any of your relationship and flirtation questions, and I'll be happy to address them in my blog. Won't that be fun! Its very Dear Abby, but hey...I'm just as good as she is! Just put "Dear Ottis" in the subject. Make sure your letters are annoymous though, to protect you and me. Send all questions to

Life Goals

We all have goals in life.  I've always thought that a goal not written down is just a fleeting wish.  So, here I will be compiling a list of my life goals.  As I complete them, I will link the goal to an article about it.
  1. Sing in the Conference Center - COMPLETE
  2. Graduate from college - COMPLETE
  3. Eat at a restaurant run by someone from the Food Network - COMPLETE
  4. Get a MM degree
  5. Open a restaurant/cafe/bed and breakfast/catering service with Kate
  6. Sing with the Tabernacle Choir
  7. Get a DMA degree
  8. Conduct in the SLC Tabernacle
  9. Cater a high class wedding
  10. Meet a celebrity
  11. Witness a tornado up close
  12. Go to an opera at The Met
  13. Visit every country in western europe
  14. Sing a solo in church - COMPLETE